This is Mark's 2nd post in the Fire Bowl (read the 1st one HERE)
In
Eugene Peterson’s The Message, Galatians 3:11b states, “The person who
lives in right relationship with God does it by embracing what God
arranges for him.” I think this statement sums up the current Fire Bowl
topic beautifully.
At
the beginning of this year, I took a test to become a supervisor at
work. After passing the written and oral portions of the exam I placed
3rd on the hiring list. I was in excellent shape to be promoted, because
there were 4 open positions. Administration interviewed the top 7
individuals on the list.
Well,
I was not selected. As a matter of fact, I was jumped twice to hire
number 4 and number 6! I was very upset. I began to suspect some sort of
conspiracy. I racked my brain wondering what went wrong and why
administration didn’t “like me?” I became bitter and disgruntled. I kept
telling myself, “There’s a reason for everything.” But I didn’t really
accept it.
Shortly
after the promotions were made, my wife got real sick. Her illness
required me to take off several days from work. My wife really needed
me. Not just as moral support, but on a couple of occasions I had to act
as her advocate to be sure her voice was heard. After a couple weeks
she recovered, and I was able to return to work.
A
couple months later, I was pondering the promotions again and asking
God why I hadn’t been promoted. I explained to Him how embarrassing it
was to have been passed over twice. I shared with him how desperately we
could have used the raise. I told God how upset I was with the
arrangements He was making. Then our most gracious and loving Father
reminded me of my wife’s illness. I was able to see, that if I had been
promoted I would have been unable to take the time off that my wife
needed me to take in order to care for her. And quite possibly, I would
have been away at Supervisor’s school when she suddenly got ill. He did
not grant me favor with the decision makers, so that I could be the man
and husband He created me to be in a very crucial time.
I
have a new found respect for how God arranges things, and a greater
desire to embrace those arrangements. I am still slow on the uptake, but
He is patient.
Peace and all good, my friends.
Thanks, Mark.
ReplyDeleteGod bless all of us who "slow on the uptake". His patience is astounding.
Good story! God knows all, and has the love for us enough to deny our requests at times. Thanks for sharing, Mark! I didn't know this happened. Peace!
ReplyDeleteWell, Mark, I just want you to know that you wrote that anecdote specifically for me. Thanks, man.
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ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous: I have deleted your comment as the author of this post is definitely not the man you are concerned with. Different state and definitely not involved with the institution you mentioned. If you have any further questions, contact me (the host of this blog) at my personal email address: cwhitler@gmail.com
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